7 Tips for a Confident Handshake

Posted by John on Aug 14, 2011 in confident relationships | 2 comments

This is just a short article, but on a subject that can leave a significant impression, good or bad, on a potential relationship, whether business or personal. Your handshake will immediately tell people a lot about you.

A person who is confident gives a firm handshake (palms pointing downwards in most cases).

Someone who is nervous, or shy gives a wilted handshake (palms pointing upwards in most cases).

1. Smile while shaking hands, but don’t smile for too long because it might give the perception that you’re gullible or not too smart.
2. Make eye contact for around 3 seconds while shaking hands.
3. If you’re sitting down, stand up to show respect when shaking hands. Remaining seated while shaking hands may give the impression that you’re not interested in the other party, and may offend them.
4. With sweaty hands, wipe out the sweat with a napkin or handkerchief before shaking hands.
5. Extend your arm outward to show them your enthusiasm and confidence.
6. Your palm should come in contact with their palm. This conveys openness and sincerity, and proves that you’re not hiding anything.
7. Shake hands firmly, but don’t give too much pressure.